I fell in love with Felipe for his stories. Years later I realized, as I listened to his mother, whose stories have not been filtered through the knowledge of letters, and are redolent with place, where he’d learned his craft.
We met in Chicago eighteen years ago. He was undocumented, working as a bus boy, I was a server in the same restaurant. As I got to know him, he told me stories of his home town, a tiny village in the Sierra Huautla mountains. To an untraveled Midwestern girl, stories tinged in accent, spilling from a beautiful man lips, made La Tigra sound like the most exotic place on earth.
As he drug the anaconda out from under the mulberry bush last week, I laughed as I thought of my past fascination and naiveté regarding La Tigra. I recalled this story he’d told me many years ago, and I asked him to speak it to me again. I didn’t realize until this telling that the events had taken place where we now live.
When I was a little boy, about six years old, my family was hired to clean peanuts here at the Piedra Rahada, it was owed by my brother -in -law at the time. We were all there, under the big huamuchil that died last year, it was a very old tree even then.
My brothers were bringing the plants from the field and my mother and sisters and I beat the roots with a mocho, the back of a broken off machete, to knock off the peanuts. At that time you could still drink the water from the creeks, when we ran out, it was my job to fetch more.
I went to the place where there is water all year round, between the roots of the big amates and parota, you know the place, all the animals drink there still. As I walked up the creek bed I saw a big rattle snake on its way for water too. I backed away and when there was some room between us I called to my family, “There’s a really big snake down here!” It was about the size of the masaquata I killed today.
My mother came down into the creek bed and when she saw the snake, even though I was pretty spooked by it, she said “Oh that’s not so big! This is what you do. ” She began to look for a big branch. “The stick has to be dry”, she said, “because the venom is like electricity and can travel up a green branch.”
She chopped off a dead branch with her machete. (She still always carries a machete.)She walked up along side the snake, who didn’t even turn to look at her, and smacked it on the head. Dead. She picked it up, went back to work, and I went for water.
Soco butchered the snake. The meat was sold as a cancer remedy, and the skin for decoration, unless it was damaged. Damaged skin was used as a preventive medicine for chicken plague. She kept a small piece in their water dish to help keep them from falling prey to illness.
I wondered how Felipe felt about his mother pish-shawing his fear of a large venomous snake.
“I felt good,” he told me,” my mother always made me feel safe, like I could take care of things myself, that there was nothing to fear.”
I can’t think of a better testament to good parenting.
He still talks good story.
oh, i love this story and what beautiful parenting indeed! xxoxoxoox
One of the things I love about these kinds of stories is how my reaction to them has changed. When Felipe first told me this story, years ago, in Chicago, probably on Spaulding :), I was aghast! What your mother poo pooed your fear, and taught you to kill a rattle snake at age six! Now, off course I realize it was exactly the right thing to do. xoxoxo see you soon!!!!
I must tell you how much I enjoy stories such as this, although they are now seldom heard. They were plentiful when I was young and people actually conversed. It was a time of multigenerational families and I guess society also. We also had the time to spend with each other since we were not glued to television, computers, or other digital devices. It was a time of “at homes” when friends and neighbors would call upon one another, Sunday dinners with family, and summer picnics were commonplace. Thank you for the story and for the poems. Please keep them coming.
That is how I grew up too David, with potlucks and Grandparents telling stories. I suppose it’s part of the reason I enjoy living in La Tigra, in some ways it reminds me of home. More stories and poems on the way 🙂
Sc-c-c-c-c-aaarrrryyy!!! jiji i wanna hear more stories!!
Coming right up! xoxox